1-Write it down.
I've never been one to write a daily diary entry about every little detail that happened to me that day. I write when BIG things happen. When you write about how you feel and let it all out on paper, you have the freedom to say whatever you want without someone else telling you anything. Sometimes when I'm feeling down I want to let it all out but not have anyone try to give me advice or anything. Writing it down is a good way to express your feelings... Another thing you can do, if things ended on bad terms and you have things you want to say to him but you don't talk anymore, you can write a letter in your diary/journal/notebook/whateveryougot to him and get out what you wanted... but DONT send the letter. Say everything you want to in that letter and keep it. Look at it later in life and you'll be so happy that you got over him.
2-Go OUT!!
Never sit at home and mope around all the time. You need to get out of the house and do things that will keep your mind off things. Have fun, but don't forget to control yourself. It's easy to forget to give yourself a limit. Party, but don't go crazy. Never drink when your sad. Always remember self-control because during a hard time like getting over a break-up, you can be emotional and make bad decisions. So, go out and hang out with friends. Have a little fun.
3-Do what makes you happy.
Whatever you want to do that makes you happy, then DO IT! If you like a little retail therapy, then go buy those shoes you love so much. You catch my drift, hey? ;)
4- CRY!!
Give yourself a good cry. Let it out. There is scientific proof that crying helps healing. So go ahead and grab that box of kleenex and your favorite fluffy pillow and have at it! But give yourself a limit. Tell yourself you're only allowed one day of crying or something like that. You can't be sitting at home for months crying and being all emo about it. Cry, and move on.
5-Get a job.
If you don't have a job, get one! Keeping yourself busy will help you move on. You won't have time to think about him when you're busy at work. If you already have a job, pick up some more hours! AND... BONUS!!! You'll have more MONEYY!! chaaa-chiinnnnnngggg!!!
6- Take care of yourself.
When you take the extra time to do your hair or makeup, you'll feel better about yourself. Pick out something cute and pretty to wear. A little extra time on yourself is a mood booster.
7- Avoid.
Avoid them, avoid places, songs, things that remind you of him. Some things can trigger memories... even good memories that will leave you missing that person even more. So always avoid places you hung out together at. Avoid them if you can. Just seeing them can also bring back those feelings and make it much more painful than it needs to be.
8- Remember your worth.
You are pretty. You are good enough. Remember that you did everything you can to make things work. You're beautiful inside and out. And when you realize that, you'll be ready to move on to bigger better things. He's out there somewhere. You just haven't met him... YET.
It definitley takes time to get over someone who had a special place in your heart. Time... There's no easy way to fast foward through the pain. I wish I had some super amazing advice to give those girls who are broken hearted. All I know is all of these things help a lot. You have to go through the motions. It's not the end of the world. Hope this helps.
Later Dolls XO
